Monday, July 2, 2012

How to help wonderful Maher Ashram and info

If you are interested in knowing more about Maher Ashram, the website is www.maherashram.com. Also, you can visit Elizabeth Kerwin's blog at www.elizabetkerwin.wordpress.com, there you can join the mailing list. Elizabeth, amoung others has started "friends of maher" which helps maher through fundraisers and by communicating all the good that maher does by providing a safe, healthy growing environment for many souls in need. anyone can help through these websites, by seeing maher first hand, i can attest that donations and volunteer work with maher goes to people who are truly in need. funds go towards giving children homes, helping woman and children go to school, building more orphanage centers, hiring doctors to help mentally disabled, providing food &clothing, building toilets for villages that do not have any, and help all that attend and run maher have a bright future.
there is also a 9 minute youtube video that you can search about maher, im sorry, my computer tablet does not allow me to paste the link.
I encourage people to check out the websites above!

Sunday, July 1, 2012

Maher

when i first arrived at maher, sister lucy welcomed me amoung others, with a smile. the children (about 40) sang to me and put orange and red powder inbetween my eyes. sister lucy then told me and another guest about maher. sister lucy started maher because she found a 7 month old woman badly burned on the ground. no one would help her. she was burned because her husband poured gas on her and lit her on fire, by the time sister lucy arrived at the hospital with her, she passed away and the baby too. sister lucy had to help so she started maher, an orphanage and womans shelter. over 600 children live at various centers. i was able to visit 4 centers.
maher definately needs support, these are not centers like the usa, the 25 children or so in each one live in one room, they lay out mats on the floor. each center has a cook, house mother, and social worker. they learn songs, english....i was there on a sunday, kids played all day. sister lucy starts centers in villages that need. maher buys toilets for these villages since people were going to the bathroom all over, making it very unhealthy. one of the centers i visited was in the middle of desert-like mountains, nothing else around, surrounded by mountains. this was the tribal center, very beautiful place. the children love visitors, the held my hand, loved my camera. i saw a house motjer picking lice out of a childs hair, giving the bugs to the child to see and let free. lets hope i dont get lice, not an easy cure in india.
these villages are very poor, some have a temple, some have a school.maher hair tries to raise money so each child can start a bank account for college, starting a bysiness, or marriage. sister lucy also has a center for woman and children with disabilities. she hopes to separate the children with disabilities to a different home. maher desparately needs help with the mentally disabeled and mentally disturbed from acts of violence. no doctors are available, they do not know how to treat these people or how to teach them . anyone is encouraged to help!
i saw some of the slums where the children come from, most have no paperwork. maher never says no to taking in a child. truly inspiring. 2 young girls were on there 3rd month volunteering, they were doing a total if 4 for college. if more colleges could help, it would be wonderful.
again, maher started 15 years ago, it has come a long,long way, it will be interesting to see how maher develops in 15 more. sister lucy has way more energy than me, she is not ready to stop helping, is extremely determined. i will post photos when i get back to usa. sister lucy told me to keep maher in my heart, after visiting, my heart and wishes goes out to everyone at maher, no doubt i will send good thoughts throughout my life.

apology for miss-spelling words

disclaimer for my grammar, i am using a tablet, not easy to fix mistakes. 

Meeting Guruji BKS Iyengar and Maher

...been a while since i have written, SO MUCH happens everyday in india, it is extremely hard to put into words. all the little things, constant honking, electricity going out with a bang, a family of 4 on a motorcycle, little child sleeps at the front with his head resting where the gas tank goes, eating at locals housrs, getting lost if u even try to walk more than a block, craving salad, locals always saying "no probem...come, sit, come eat ...its no problem, i show you..."
the best thing that has happened so far is meeting guruji BKS IYENGAR, I walked down into the tiny basement library at rimyi the first day i was accepted inti classes, just to check it out before class and there he was! it was him, no one else looks like guruji, you cant mistake it, he is an icon for all of his teachings, my hero at 93 years old, still walking down steps to study at his desk in the libary. i looked away and meandered to the books.
, a nice woman in a gorgeous sari, she was an elder offered me dried garbanzo beans and dates, said i could only have them if i was not on my period, her welcome gift,she said. then, i wanted to look at BKS Iyengar more and thought, this is my chance with only 5 or so people in the room, i knelt down before him and thanked him a few times, honor to meet him,tried to make small talk about dean lerner coming. i could barely understand him, he said "bess you,bless you......"among other things and i stood up, went to class, that was the start to my experience at the institiute, wow!
my 1st class was all woman, the teacher was very kind, mostly locals in the class who got in trouble for talking. i did good, the poses flowed pretty fast, good thing i know the sanskrit names. i loved it.usually, gunaaz dahi teaches this class, but she is out of india.
my 2nd class taught by a man was men and woman, restorative and pranayama class. he gathered us very close and talked for a long while about pranayama. he said "most people think pranayama quiets the mind, it is asana that quiets the mind so you are ready for pranayama. i LOVED this talk, then, we did headstand, not many people could do it in the middle of the room, i felt honored that si can, thanks mom for all of those gymnastic classes, now look yoga classes in india, who knew and who knows what we can become or do in the future! anyway, i will get my teachers names and write back later...then we did backbend thru a chair, shoulderstand in a chair, not at the wall. i am in the intermediate classes, by the way. then pranayama lying down. after that, our teacher demonstrated sitting pranayama with a "sharp, long exhale" teachers here talk about using "sharp"breaths. it was mind blowing to watch this masters chest expand and how far his shoulders roll back. he said "the exhilatin goes from the bottom tip of the chest bone down on an outward diagonal to the floating ribs"he had us use our hands to feel. then we tried. soooo challenging for me to do sitting pranayama, i have only tried it a few times. he guided us for3 rounds...aharo, long exhilation, inhalation,back to normal breath, again, he guided us for about 3 rounds, then we had to do our own. this was challenging, i felt like i might faint or puke, but i know being a student of yoga, that that is the begining, pranayama takes timeand dedication to learn. i also learned a trick while sitting to bring the arms slightly away from the chest, roll shoulders
back, bring the arms back closer to the chest, elbow tips desendin to the floo....very helpl!
savasana tips.."if the back o te heel
are touching the floor, your leds are not ready for savasana, the outer edge of the ankle should be touching the floor."
much to learn in deed, i really like this male teacher, very direct, yet kind, firm voice.
todat, sunday was a day off, i went to maher ashram, the orphanage and womans shelter. avery hard travelling day, i rode there on a rickshaw for an hour, anyone who has ever ridin in one knows an hour is WAY too long. i got very sick and once at maher, travelled for 4 more hours on dirt bumby roads, no bathroom break, very very sick, i even saw a mirage at one point...we were out in the very desolate dry, desert like india, even went to a tribal community in the middle of thedesert mountains.i would have enjoyed it more, except i was ill from the extreme, and i mean very tremendous amount of pollutuon and exhuast i inhaled from the rickshaw ride even while wearing a face mask(thanks to tracy)and a scarf! i finally was able to lay down for a while, then became worried about having to ride home in a rickshaw for another hour after 5 hours of bumpy pollutiony roads. sister lucy was kind to have her driver take me home, which felt like forever to come being so sick. maher is an amazing place, i will write more about it tomorrow as i am tired.tomorow, i look forward to my evening yoga class and maybe a massage after my rickety day, 7 dollars for a massage! on that note, good night!i